My 12 Lemondaid Goals

January 8, 2009


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Now I want to make a disclaimer. This is my first time trying to be organized with my resolutions and I am making it up as I go, but I do believe that all the steps will be helpful. My desire is to make goal achievement very practical for myself, to set up a lifestyle of balanced living, and to conquer the feelings that come with being overwhelmed. I am middle age I realized that I have never made a long term plan for my life, and I think that maybe is the reason I have been in a rut in different areas of my life. So this year is a new opportunity to change that around and actually be working towards living the life and being the kind of person I want to be. Dr Phil says, “You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge.” So let me acknowledge some of my problems and share my goals.

this Sicilian Lemon is going to become Limoncello
My Twelve Lemons 2009
1) Mental- I fear the disapproval others and it leads to have a lot of insecurities.

2) Social- My lack of confidence makes me fearful of a lot of social situations.

3) Finance- My husband is the only one working and we don’t have enough income to pay our bills and accomplish our goals.

4) Family- I’m not as close to my family as I use to be, or as close as I want to be.

5) Physical- I weight 215 lbs. I lack physical endurance and muscle tone.

6) Spiritual- I don’t know my purpose and I lack mindful awareness.

7) Home- My house is a mess and is disorganized.

8) Health- I have a fibroid that makes it difficult to conceive and causes other health problems.

9) Career- I’m not sure what I should do, or even if I should work at all.

10) Ethical- I feel like I should volunteer and help my community but I feel like I have too much to do already.

11) Education- I haven’t finished my degree and I don’t how to obtain it.

12) Cultural- I have a strong desire to travel abroad and try new things but my social awareness and my lack of funds make it hard to do.

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My New Year’s Resolutions 2009

1) I want be confident and to learn what to do when other people seem to disapprove of me.

2) I want to be comfortable, charming and friendly in all social situations.

3) I want to earn my own income, enough to live debt free and build wealth.

4) I want to maintain close friendship within my family.

5) I want to weight 135lbs, be able to run five miles and have great muscle tone.

6) I want to know my God given purpose and become strong in mindful awareness.

7) I want my home to be clean, very organized and cutely decorated.

8) I want to be free of my fibroid and fertile.

9) I would to decide what I career I want to pursue, create my own business where I can work from home and hire employees.

10) I want to make time to use my talents and experience to help other by volunteering.

11) I want to finish my Psychology degree.

12) I want to experience different cultures in all forms, and travel abroad.